The feminists have essentially lost even more credibility in eyes of the law and the people by these statements. Women empowerment can never happen by breeding an army of parasite wives. A marriage is not a service that the woman is providing the man and hence she cannot be legally entitled to get paid for the service. A marriage is a partnership and if why one partner should be forced to pay another partner if this partnership should break. The whole idea of Alimony is to provide temporary support to a “person”( husband/wife) who has contributed to the marriage and needs that support. The support is for the person to able to stand on his/her own feet and resume normal life . Yes , the support should be directly proportional to the person’s contribution and requirements( including children ) and cannot be made a right no matter what . Forcefully providing support to a parasitic wife included to enjoy at the husband’s expenses while voluntarily incapacitating herself at home would lead to sending a totally wrong message to the young girls whose sole idea then would be to make a “good catch” in the form of a husband and then milk him for alimony . Is this the sort of future generation of Indian women we are envisioning ?
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Ye Wives Maange More !!!
The feminists have essentially lost even more credibility in eyes of the law and the people by these statements. Women empowerment can never happen by breeding an army of parasite wives. A marriage is not a service that the woman is providing the man and hence she cannot be legally entitled to get paid for the service. A marriage is a partnership and if why one partner should be forced to pay another partner if this partnership should break. The whole idea of Alimony is to provide temporary support to a “person”( husband/wife) who has contributed to the marriage and needs that support. The support is for the person to able to stand on his/her own feet and resume normal life . Yes , the support should be directly proportional to the person’s contribution and requirements( including children ) and cannot be made a right no matter what . Forcefully providing support to a parasitic wife included to enjoy at the husband’s expenses while voluntarily incapacitating herself at home would lead to sending a totally wrong message to the young girls whose sole idea then would be to make a “good catch” in the form of a husband and then milk him for alimony . Is this the sort of future generation of Indian women we are envisioning ?
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Protest against Malimath Committee recommendations
Letter is available at
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http://bit.ly/c7lGrh
Address to send is :-
**************************** Honourable Law Minister,
Shri S Suresh Kumar,
Ministry for Law & Parliamentary Affairs,
#327, Vidhana Soudha,
Bangalore-560001
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Legal rape of Husbands: India’s fastest growing crime
“Just like a man misusing his physical strength on a woman is called a rapist , a female misusing her legal strength on a man must be also called as a rapist. “
--- A Gender rights activist
What is Rape ?
The word rape itself originates from the Latin verb rapere: to seize or take by force. According to the feminists Rape is about power, not sex. A rapist uses actual force or violence — or the threat of it — to take control over another human being. Rape is categorized as a crime against humanity.
How can a rapist exercise power on a victim?
A rapist can exercise power on a victim either physically or legally. When it comes to physical rapes since men are physically more powerful than women and this results in a significantly larger percentage of physical rape victims being women .
There are also a lot of instances when a wife wants to illegally exercise her power on her husband and use actual force or the threat of it to take control of her husband. In these instances the wife legally rapes the husband using government backed laws and misusing the state machinery.
What is a legal rape ?
A legal rape is a situation when a person used the legal system to unleash trauma and violence on the victim in order to exercise power on the victim and to control the victim.
How Indian husband are legally raped?
In order to exercise her control and power over her husband ore in some instances punish him for not towing her line Indian wives frequently resort to using her legal power to unleash trauma and suffering on the husband many times over his entire family . Primary among the tools of legal rape are section 498a , DV act of 2005 , Maintenance and Child custody laws.
The symptoms leading to the legal rape have an uncanny similarity to the physical rape of women.
a) The legal rapist is always close acquaintance of the victim in the from of wife , daughter in law or sister-in-law.
b) The victim refuses to abide by the whims of the rapist.
c) The rapist develops deep rooted hatred for the victim and has a desire to control the life of the victim and exercise power over the victim.
d) The rapist uses her legal force to rape the victim.
e) Many times the wife legally rapes the husband impulsively as opportunity presently itself and might later regret the act.
f) Very often the legal rapists say that the trigger for the legal rape was when a husband made them angry, usually by rebuffing a wife’s whims and fancies or toeing her line.
The effects of Legal Rape ?
Just like the symptoms the aftermath if a legal rape is also similar to a physical rape.
Victims of legal rape can be severely traumatized by the assault and may have difficulty functioning as well as they had been used to prior to the assault, with disruption of concentration, sleeping patterns and eating habits, for example. They may feel jumpy or be on edge. After being legally raped, it is common for the victim to experience acute stress disorder, including symptoms similar to those of posttraumatic stress disorder, such as intense, sometimes unpredictable, emotions, and they may find it hard to deal with their memories of the event. In the months immediately following the legal rape , these problems may be severe and very upsetting and may prevent the victim from revealing their ordeal to friends or family, or seeking police or medical assistance. Additional symptoms of Acute Stress Disorder include:
* Depersonalization or dissociation (feeling numb and detached, like being in a daze or a dream, or feeling that the world is strange and unreal)
* Difficulty remembering important parts of the assault
* reliving the assault through repeated thoughts, memories, or nightmares
* Avoidance of things, places, thoughts, and/or feelings that remind the victim of the assault
* Anxiety or increased alertness (difficulty sleeping, concentrating, etc.)
* Avoidance of social life
For one-third to one-half of the victims, these symptoms continue beyond the first few months and meet the conditions for the diagnosis of posttraumatic stress disorder
The facts of legal rape in India
- The incidence of legal rapes of husbands is thousands of percentages higher than that the physical rapes of women. The legal rape has become a profitable industry for the Lawyers and the Legal rapist wives.
- The legal rape system is backed by the government even though there is little difference between raping a woman by physical force and raping man using legal force .
- Physical rape affects one woman , while legal rape affects the family of the man including men , women and children
- In Legal rape the victim of the rape is asked to compensate the female rapist. No legal rapist has ever been [punished in India for committing such a heinous crime .
- The Indian government has no welfare schemes to rehabilitate the victims of legal rape. Instead finds are allocated to encourage females to legally rape husbands and protect them from prosecution for the legal rape.
- Trauma of a legal rape lasts for a entire lifetime and is much more severe than a physical rape. Many times husband are forced take their own lives after being legally raped by the law.
Sunday, September 26, 2010
S Shinde's conversation with V Moily
V Moily :- I am fine dear , how is your papa doing ? The power industry is doing
well, I say. They have put me the laaaaw ministry , what to do ? No Deal ...no
money .. nothing to make in this ministry .
S Shinde :- Oh I see.. Papa is good last week only he did Rs 10,000 crore power deal just last week.
S Shinde :- What happened to the that quick divorce law Veru uncle . I am still
waiting you see. Doctor said , I have like a few more years before I reach my
designated time. Please do it faast Veru uncle ..Please !!
V Moily :- Don't worry beti , I have created the law , but you see in India
there are something even i cannot change . It has to go through a process , it
is with the parliamentary committee now . This laaaw is just tailored for you ,
I have studied your case and created the laaaw just for you, so that only you in
the country will get the divorce even if others do not get it.
S Shinde :- Oh that's great Moily uncle , so by when do you think I can get my
divorce.
V Moily :- I will try my level besht to enshoore that you get diiivorce by end
of December . Because Jan in good lagna for the stars and you can get marraied
by January.
S Shinde:- But people might oppose to the law uncle .Then what will you do ? You
might have to take their suggestions .
V Moily :- When have I taken from the people ? I always give . I Give praamise
after praamise . See finally I got Rs 5000 core allocated for the reforms . Now
I can fin ally get some money for my retirement from here . Otherwise you see it
is very difficult to make any money in the laaaw ministry , I say . Let the
people say whatever thy waant we will do what what we waant to do .After all
Government's work is God's work , and has god ever listed to people . God does
whatever he likes to do .People can pray , but it is up to god to listen.
S Shinde :- Ok Veeru uncle , I need to leave now . I need to shop for Saaries
and Jewels for my marraige .
V Moily :- VOOOK Beti , We will taaalk later , give my best to daddy.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Govt seeks representations on Marraige law amendment bill
Director of Rajya Sabha Secreteriat,
201 Second floor , Parliament House Annexxe,
New Delhi - 110001
Letter Link - 2( New letter )
Sunday, September 12, 2010
SHWB Mandry Campaign
The Honorable Prime Minister,
South Block, Raisina Hill,
New Delhi,
India-110 101.
Friday, August 13, 2010
Press Coverage : Indian men observe “Sugarless Independence day”
Times of India : For 'harassed' men, Independence Day will be sugarless
Bangalore Mirror : I-Day 'no sugar day' for hubbies
Hindustan Times : For 'harassed' men, Independence Day will be sugarless
The Hindu :Meet on men's rights on August 15
Punjab NewsLine :- SIFF announces 3rd annual men’s right conference on August 15
Friday, August 6, 2010
Sexual Harrasment at workplace Bill Letter Campaign
Send it to the addresses below the respective letters Link
Smt. Sonia Gandhi,
10, Janpath
New Delhi - 110011
Department of Personnel & Training,
North Block,
New Delhi – 110001
Head of the Cabinet,
Prime Minister of India,
South Block, Raisina Hill,
New Delhi, 110 011
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Its Official , No Mens Ministry or National Commission for Men exists now
RTI Questions
RTI Reply
Monday, July 19, 2010
Indian Media acknowledges the shortfalls of the Sexual Harrasment Bill
JanSatta(Hindi Article Titled - Questions arise on Sexual Harassment at Workplace Bill )
Pune Mirror
Kolkata Telegraph
8 Page Article on India News
Deccan Herald: Wanted Gender neutral Laws
Noted Social Activist Madhu Kishwar strongly opposes sections of the Sexual Harassment Bill on India NewsX
Friday, July 16, 2010
Open Magazine celebrates the success of Indian mens rights movement
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
1. It out rightly violates the essence of article 15 of Indian constitution which prohibits discrimination against any citizen on the grounds of religion and sex
2. SHWB initiates contempt of court by violating the guidelines of the land mark SC judgment of Vishakha which was passed in 1997
3.There is a clear intention to influence decision making by mandating appointment of people, “committed to the cause of women” .Such compulsions categorically rule out Sexual harassment of Men without any basis.
4. It legally mandates the suppression of false cases with an intention to give a façade of proper use by restricting the use of RTI act on the law.
5. It legally mandates that punishment for misuse be made “discretionary” and not “mandatory “so that misusers are safeguarded
2. Clear Violation of Vishakha Guidelines
1) “The overwhelming nature of sexual harassment is sexual harassment of women on account of their female sex”
The WCD ministry must be called upon to explain the meaning of this sentence and on what basis they concluded that the harassment of men is on a lesser footing than women. Does the WCD consider men any less of human beings than women? Is the stigma and suffering of a man any less than women if sexually harassed at workplace? The comments of WCD are openly violating Article 15 of the Constitution, which prohibits against any discrimination on grounds of sex and cannot be held with any credibility.
The WCD ministry is absolutely right in its above observation. Having said that as they officially accept they do not represent more than 50% of the population and hence they have no moral or social right whatsoever to draft a law affecting the whole population of India. It is as good as saying that the honorable the Prime minister will allow the drafting of the law concerning Hindus and Muslims by a ministry that openly claims that it does not have the mandate to protect the Muslims. Will it not lead to religious war? Then how such stances of the WCD cannot incite gender war?
Demands
d) The mandatory inclusion of corporate bodies like FICCI and CII and a corporate committee comprising an equal number of male and female members from the industry so that interests of both genders are kept in mind while drafting laws to truly achieve a equal opportunity workplace.
f) Allowing the reporting of all cases true or false in the media so that the magnitude of use or misuse can be measured.
g) Provision of any sort of settlement must be removed. The accused must be either punished or the complaint must be deemed as false and action taken against the complainant. The spawning of the extortion industry must be stopped at the root.
Monday, July 5, 2010
Friday, July 2, 2010
Sexual Harrasment is Gender Neutral the world over , why not India ?
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Indian HarrasmentGate Scandal
An article in Yahoo India requesting for comments has evoked a strong response from the Indian working class . Many people have stated in their comments that women too much be included as aggressors in the Sexual harassment law . The citizenry also overwhelmingly believe that another gender biased laws will only be misused by motivated women. The comments also reflect that women too believe that this law must be made gender neutral . The link to the Yahoo article and people's opinions on the article are in the link below
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Monday, June 14, 2010
Major scam in framing of Sexual Harassment at Workplace Law: All representations to make law Gender Neutral ignored despite overwhelming public opinion
Monday, May 31, 2010
TADA and 498A are more or less the same legal framework , if TADA can be repealed why not 498A ?
The definition of Terrorism
How are TADA and 498A similar ?
The carnage of TADA
The carnage of 498A is still ongoing
Why is 498a more dangerous than TADA?
2)Indian state spends exchequers money to fight false cases. This is leading to massive loss of revenue which could have been used in a better way to improve judicial infrastructure.
3)Government lacks commitment to fight legal terrorism unleashed through misuse of section 498a even through it is clear that 498a is a lot more deadly than TADA when misused.